One of the main categories of Self-Development material that I was pursuing for reading material, before I dove in deep with Conscious Creation, was that whole teaching of…
Let Go of what Happens out there in the material world – Basically, respond with indifference when shit happens.
Even Abe-Hicks, a primary source of LOA material, tells you the same thing:
Most people think that they only have the option of responding to the circumstances that surround them. And that’s what makes them attempt the impossible, which is to control the circumstances around them, which only feeds their feeling of frustration and vulnerability because it doesn’t take very much life experience to discover you can’t control all of those circumstances.
So, take someone who has just discovered Conscious Creation, whether someone introduced them to a Neville book, or they had seen the Secret.
What I’m saying here might affect their attitude about how legitimate all of these metaphysical concepts really are.
I mean, if even A-H is saying, “you can’t control all of those circumstances”, well….. crap, “I thought you could control things with your mind and feelings!.. isn’t that what these teachers are saying?”
However, what they miss, is that, the “What-Is”/The Visible Stuff in their face never has to Look any particular way at any moment, to have any meaning.
The Intelligence spoken of, in the various books we might read, doesn’t care that our Ego doesn’t like certain events. So IT will respond to a Conscious Vibration you are creating through your Focus by shaping your Material world in the most direct manner it possibly can, even if that new shape it takes feels painful to our Ego.
For instance, if you’re wanting a business for yourself, and you are cultivating a vibration of the freedom, joy, excitement that’s consistent with someone who has a successful business, this is going to launch things into action.
And these “things/events” might include stuff the human Ego doesn’t enjoy
The ego may not things like …….
- Getting laid off
- A potential business partner says no to your offer to join for a sales campaign
- A potential romantic interest drops out of the picture.
However, your newly habituated vibration as someone who feels like an entrepreneur, and does things that a successful business owner does, and cultivates Being-Qualities of that person (or someone in a great relationship), means that.. the above, so-called “negative” events are Higher-Being-caused, and not negative in the long run.
Sooo,… The Higher Being knows …….
- Getting laid off will mean that a, and you now have the time to dive into some product you’ve been putting very little energy into. and them, bam, you’ve created something you can market.
- That potential business partner saying no, will be a beneficial thing.. somehow, someway.. possibly because your product being marketed with his/her product line will not be compatible..
- The potential romantic interest is not a good match for you… investing time in that wrong match will mean you don’t meet the person, that’s the perfect match.
To sum up, those circumstances that you believe you need to control, are exactly the circumstances that don’t need changing at all.. and are the very aspects of life that sometimes look a certain way, but are indirectly bringing you to those situations that will make you Feel more of what you’re already Feeling ( you are cultivating your vibration consciously, right ? ).
Remember what Neville says about Bridges of Incidents. Intelligence Itself knows everything about everything, and will launch the perfect sequence of things to manifest the objective.. even if your ego may not like some of the intermediate incidents.
As a concluding example:
I don’t think Neville was too thrilled about his ex-partner ( who refused to sign the divorce papers ) being arrested for shoplifting, and thus “forcing” him to stop what he was doing, to schlep all the way to the courthouse to testify for her, that she was actually a good person who simply made a mistake.
But the Infinite Self aspect of Neville KNEW that he’s that kind of generous, unconditionally forgiving person that would help his ex-partner, even though she was not being very nice about not signing the papers.
And his Infinite Self also KNEW, that in response to Neville helping her out in court, that she would then finally sign the Divorce papers, so that Neville could finally legally marry his then-girlfriend.
If Neville resisted circumstances, and simply decided that: “Well, this is her karma,.. so let her get arrested and be thrown in jail for a night”… then he would have blocked the ultimate Good that was destined to happen in response to his visualization of his current girlfriend being his Wife sleeping next to him.
Always know, that what trumps what your current appearances, is what you are consciously assuming the feeling of on a consistent basis.
As someone who is a Master in Conscious Creation, like you, the Reader can be.. you can ignore the “What-Is” in favor of what you’re creating, that no one else around can see.
I remember the job interview I had many years ago, for the first job that actually related to my career in computers. At that time, I was operating definitely at the 3-dimensional level and thought I was at effect from the outside, and everyone outside had a say in my income, my day to day security, and others had the official last word over my likeability or employeability.
I got that particular job, but not out of any positive impression I left (I had sweaty palms and acted really nervously) – it might have been my friend who was already at this company, and who I had attended a technical school with me, had already gave me a great reference ( but I don’t want even want to conjecture on the reason from being any cause in the 3D world anyway ).
My approach now, when it comes to the whole subject of money and being employed and resumes and seeking approval is at the 180 degree point.
Sometimes I receive questions about how I go about actually putting into practice the various practices/disciplines/techniques, etc, contained in the books I review somewhere, videos I’ve done, either on this blog, or on Amazon, or in an article I’ve got somewhere on the Internet.
Applying Vadim Zeland’s principle of LOSING IMPORTANCE
Universally, the Key Decision I hold is — (and this unfortunately is going to make you think of the common advice to not move away from negative instead of moving toward positive)
The Key Thing is..
Not letting the current circumstances, the appearance of something, affect me.
If something is “out there” (and it’s all illusion anyway), messing with me, I constantly remind myself that I’m in charge of my State of Being.. So my Main Emphasis, is to not give anything any power over me. I refuse to get stuck, long term, feeling anger, or frustration, or fear, because all that does, is continue creating that crap in the future. ( however, it’s good to sometimes intentionally feel these emotions in a dedicated “Releasing session” in order to let go )
Don’t get caught up in the line of thinking that goes like this: “Well, because I’ve got this crap in my face , this means that I’ve got a “F’d up” vibration, or a series of accumulated low-emotional days that created this, so I’ve got reason to continue to be unhappy”… But the thing is, this Reality, the Mechanism that reflects your state of being into the physical stuff outside, doesn’t’ care that you want to drag the shit that’s showing up outside, into the future through your continual low-emotion-based state. It’ll just do it for you, and be neutral about it.
A Russian Quantum Mechanics Physicist wrote some books you must simply buy and read and re-read.
I’d be hard-pressed to summarize all of the powerful and compelling concepts offered by this writer, Vadim Zeland. I’ll try to anyway.
Importance (drop it)
Yes, importance. Drop it.. Anything related to the goings on of your day to day life, especially, I mean especially, things that annoy you, distress you, depress you, etc.. drop their $%^!& importance altogether. There are plenty of writers who have covered the significance of “letting go”, or ceasing resisting the “bad” stuff that you dislike. But Vadim rams this concept through you and on top of you, and keeps with it until you’re convinced, deep down, that it’s a necessary step toward easily and joyfull and effortlessly creating the “life tracks” as he terms it that coincide with your ideal life.
Choose Intention, drop Desire
There’s also Desire. You will know the key difference between this and Intention (and why dropping desire is the effective thing to do).. no, it’s not a re-hash of what writers such as Wayne Dyer or Vitale (ala The Secret), have said.. not the every-day motivation type of getting you to “Intend stuff”.
No, Vadim brings up the concepts of internal and external intention, and you, on your second read of the second book.. yes.. this is covered in book 2 specifically.. and yes, I stress that you must re-read these to pummel into all levels of meaning of his teachings into your understanding… will understand these 2 types of intention.
Multiple Universes, or Spaces of Variations
The most interesting and potent concepts that are covered, however, is the concept of life tracks, and basically, of the multiple possible Universes you live in in any one moment, and that you choose, based on your own personal decision of how either grateful you are in general, or how pissed off you get at the slightest little external stimulus that have always pushed your buttons.
A Rustle of Morning Stars
This is the actual title of his second book. It is Vadim’s phrase for the quiet voice inside, intuition if you want to call it. I don’t want to try to summarize all of the powerful ways he explains how to be someone who takes advantage of this Voice, and the benefits of doing so. Just read the books.