Sometimes I receive questions about how I go about actually putting into practice the various practices/disciplines/techniques, etc, contained in the books I review somewhere, videos I’ve done, either on this blog, or on Amazon, or in an article I’ve got somewhere on the Internet.
Applying Vadim Zeland’s principle of LOSING IMPORTANCE
Universally, the Key Decision I hold is — (and this unfortunately is going to make you think of the common advice to not move away from negative instead of moving toward positive)
The Key Thing is..
Not letting the current circumstances, the appearance of something, affect me.
If something is “out there” (and it’s all illusion anyway), messing with me, I constantly remind myself that I’m in charge of my State of Being.. So my Main Emphasis, is to not give anything any power over me. I refuse to get stuck, long term, feeling anger, or frustration, or fear, because all that does, is continue creating that crap in the future. ( however, it’s good to sometimes intentionally feel these emotions in a dedicated “Releasing session” in order to let go )
Don’t get caught up in the line of thinking that goes like this: “Well, because I’ve got this crap in my face , this means that I’ve got a “F’d up” vibration, or a series of accumulated low-emotional days that created this, so I’ve got reason to continue to be unhappy”… But the thing is, this Reality, the Mechanism that reflects your state of being into the physical stuff outside, doesn’t’ care that you want to drag the shit that’s showing up outside, into the future through your continual low-emotion-based state. It’ll just do it for you, and be neutral about it.
Ask most people what their primary struggle is when it comes to implementing the principles taught by Neville, Joseph Murphy, or other teachers who tell us to purposely feel the feelings of a desired objective as though it were true right now.
Their answer might be similar to: “Whenever I begin entering that state where I look at myself and my surroundings as if the Thing has transpired, the same voice objects: “Bullsh*t, it’s not going to happen”.
How to eliminate it? Examine the real meaning of why it’s interjecting
This B.S.R. mechanism (bullshit response) needs a source of power for it to continue its life, and this power is that unfortunate Faith we place in a fear of can’t-happen, more than in the Faith in knowing that it has already happened in another plane of reality as soon as you have channeled emotion-backed feeling into it.
In the subtle unseen world, where materials things actually originate, the objective is already existing.
The BSR has its own support panel of associates (beliefs) that have been built up, from us accepting the final verdicts from so many conversations stemming from our childhood. These interactions could be plentiful, and include even the most casual chat with an uncle when you were five that told you that “you’ve got to be realistic, it took me forty years to save up for a car”. (“Gee, thanks for sharing wtih me your choice of living such a limited life, Uncle Jed”, should now be your response to any memory you have of these interactions).
Resisting the BSR only gives it power and nutrition. A lot of us have resisted these can’t-have thoughts so much, it’s the equivalent of giving the BSR a High-end vegetable Juicer with a big bowl of organic green, orange and red vegetables. It’s Mega-Nutrition for it.
An example of resistance: If you are doing your best to get tuned into the Feeling-State of having your rent covered next month, the B.S.R., will demand to be heard every time. There’s just too much fear invested in the “possibility” of having no way to pay rent.
The best way to cancel out the B.S.R. is to agree .. be prepared for what I’m going to say .. to not making it such a disaster that you don’t have rent. Taking away the emotional charge from a possibility is one of the most important things to do, if you’re not able to otherwise leak out the charge some other way. Removing the this-is-bad, this-is-good label/charge out of a possible reality will de-fuse the momentum of thoughts being directed toward that imagined possiblity. The BSR gets its power and backing from you dwelling on how “bad” something can be.
If you’re becoming someone who is taking charge of your Consciousness, and you end up being kicked out the home, your real Identity is not necessarily of someone homeless. This is the last thing you want to read in an article such as this, on a site of this particular form. I mean, who wants to consider that possibility when you’re trying to do this “conscious creation/apply The Secret” stuff.
However, remember, that even you if won the Lotto today, it doesn’t mean as much as you think about the real reality of things.
The Bottom Line:
The way to build a world of steady riches is by self-examination when you have the time. Seth, in Nature of Personal Reality (Jane Roberts) has some great advice in this area: Sit down with your eyes closed and just allow and follow the stuff that comes up – the emotions. It always leads back to your beliefs. NOPR covers more about beliefs work and how
the clustering of different beliefs create “systems of ideas/beliefs” , including where “core” beliefs come in, than anything I’ve ever read.
However, at the very least, if you can’t consider delving into such a large tome of a book, at least pick up one of the books you’ve probably already bought that has actual exercises in the book prompting you to write your beliefs in various areas of your life, especially finances.
In Cody Horton’s Consciously Creating Wealth, she has an excellent exercise that guides you to allowing negative emotions to come up, and then following that thread of feeling back in your memory, to an incident in your past where you happened to have accepted a belief and you forgot that you even did that.
Another excellent book: Harv Ecker’s book Secrets of the Millionaire Mind. But, again, you have to actually do the exercises.
Among the books I listed above, one must-have in my opinion is “Before You Think Another Thought” by Bruce Doyle. It’s a very slim book that gets to the point and provides very effective exercises.
( Let’s take a Q&A break Q: Why are there so many seminars and courses and teleclasses on “LOA” A: Because noone ever actually did the exercise part of all of the books they bought. They just read them. Q: But I bet Mr Gates or Mr. Trump never did the exercises or bought the books. How Come? A: That’s really the wrong question. No answer needed. Wheeww what a relief. Just find out who you are, and don’t worry about having billions. )
If your gut feeling tells you to really start examining yourself, especially your hardened assumptions and Beliefs, in response to an exercise you see from a book, or article, and you don’t follow that strong instinct to actually do the exercise, than your world will stay the same. Yes, even if you watch the Secret twenty more times. The intuitional urges you get aren’t only meant for doing those “outside” things like call someone.
Follow your intuition if that part of you is prompting you to examine the assumptions and beliefs that you take for granted as something you think is true about yourself. This is more important than learning some new marketing method, and more valuable than going to yet another seminar, and definitely way more valuable than copying what someone else did to make their money, etc.
But ONLY if your intuition is prompting you. As my previous post mentioned, it’s more valuable to deliberately feel emotions in your hear-and-now, than it is to constantly try to root out beliefs.
I think you’d probably agree that one of Neville’s brilliant contributions through his teaching, are the ‘Live-From-The-End’ type of scripting that he offers as a powerful way to transform the outer ‘facts’, to reflect your new desired State of Being, of Harmony and Balance.
In the above video, I bring up Neville’s answer to a grandmother’s problem with her daughter-in-law – which is simply writing a letter FROM her Daughter-In-Law, as if her daughter and not her actually wrote it.
Yep, sounds simple, and we know that simple is powerful, because we’re brazenly asserting with an abbreviated, profound feeling of IT’S DONE, when it comes to assuming that feeling of “She wrote me a letter.. she wants me back in her life, yeah!”.
However, for anyone who implements this practice, you might try the first time to actually write the letter, but it feels so FORCED and not authentic. So, it might you require for, a couple of hours, or a couple of nights, to really let go of any lack of forgiveness, or judgement still present inside you.
However, the news is always good.. this isn’t a bad thing.
That Principle that maintains the nature of relationships between the separate aspects of the Gods that we are is always going to transform on the outside the degree of positive change we accomplish on the inside. And we might need to work on digging out layers of judgement, of victimhood, or of unforgiveness.
in the course of transforming one relationship., then that’s going to affect multiple external relationships simultaneously, because we are healing that negativity on multiple layers!